Being a First Time Director

By: Erin DelRegno

When becoming director of a child care center for the first time, you have many different thoughts and feelings. If you are already familiar with the program and staff because you worked there as a teacher, maybe you will feel completely ready. I was a Pre-K teacher in a childcare center, moving into an Education Manager position within a Head Start program. So, although I was excited, I was also very nervous. I knew many of the teachers I would be supervising had worked at these centers for a very long time; I’m sure they weren’t sure what to expect from this new person coming in. I also knew the large number of classrooms and staff I would be working with and was worried about prioritizing my time and being able to manage it all.

Regardless of what you are thinking or how you are feeling, this is still a new position for you and I know you are preparing and hoping to do the absolute best you can for the program, teachers, children, and families. As you get started on this new journey, I’ve included some tips below based on things I learned during my years as a director. I hope they help you to be successful and make a positive impact in your program.

  • There is nothing wrong with how you are feeling.

     Anytime there is a big change

    ,

     and everything is new, you are not go

    i

    ng to be completely comfortable. 

    You 

    need to 

    get your feet wet first so you can become more familiar with the position and the program you are working for

    . Putting yourself out there is the only way to

     gain new exper

    ience.

  • Take it one day

    ,

    and one task

    ,

    at a time

    .

    I remember my first day; I was shown my office (

    a 

    literal closet) and was told to read through these two huge binders about the 

    organization/

    program and to go through stuff in the office. The desk, shelves, and floor were 

    filled and 

    stacked with binders, documents, etc. just thrown everywhere

     (I could only get to my chair)

    . So, I know firsthand that i

    t c

    an seem overwhelming at first

    , but just like with everything else, 

    you will work through it

    , and t

    he more you do it the more natural it will become.

  • Ask for help.

    Don’t be afraid to q

    uestion what you don’t know

     and 

    are confused about

    , and let others know when you need support

    . 

    No matter how much experience y

    o

    u 

    have, you 

    are new

    to this position

     and 

    are still learning

     the ins-and-outs 

    and expectations 

    of th

    is

     center

     and

     organization.

  • Get to know 

    your staff

    .

     They are more than a name, 

    more than a classroom number, 

    more than 

    just 

    a 

    teacher you supervise

    . Just as 

    you encourage 

    teachers to build positive relationships with 

    the 

    children 

    and families 

    they work with, it is just as important to do 

    this 

    with the teachers you are working with. This is 

    key and is 

    the foundation for everything else 

    you will do as a director.

  • Be respectful of your staff and others you work with. 

    I say the same thing when I talk to teachers; if you want

     the children to be respectful of you

    , you 

    need

    to

     giv

    e the same

     respect in return. 

    You are modeling for 

    your staff

     and should 

    treat them the way you want to be treated

    . 

    If you are disrespectful towards them (

    i.e. 

    don’t

     listen

    to them, 

    boss them around, speak down to them or yell at them

    ,

    etc.)

    , that will filter down and 

    might

     be 

    how they end up being 

    towards their coworkers, families, 

    or

     the children.

     Would you want to work very hard for someone that treated you poorly?

  • Do not go in there thinking you know everything

    .

    Don’t forget that the teachers you

    ’re

     working with 

    also 

    have 

    knowledge and 

    experience

    working 

    w

    ith

     young

     children. I

     saw

     a former teacher 

    go

    into 

    a 

    program as a new 

    direct

    or; they had 

    so much

    to

     offer

    . H

    owever, 

    the

    y immediately went in telling everyone what to do, how to do it, and it could only be done their way. This result

    ed

     in 

    confusion

    , 

    b

    acklash

     from staff

    , 

    extra stress

    on everyone, and 

    only 

    lasting 

    a few months

     as a director

    .

     Get to know the program first and w

    ork on improving areas that are needed

    ,

    not just

     things you don’t like 

    or

     wouldn’t have done in your

     class

    room.

  • Every classroom will be different.

     Don’t expect every classroom to look the same or every teacher to do things in the same way. The same program expectations and outcomes can be achieved in a variety of ways. All teachers are unique, and they come up with some great ideas that others wouldn’t have thought of. Embrace their differences and their individual strengths; they can all be useful within your program.

  • You are

     part of a team.

     In 

    He

    ad 

    S

    tart 

    we had 

    different departments (health, family service,

     etc.

    )

    . Other programs are smaller but maybe have a Pre-K Counts classroom

     in the building

    .

    You are all a part of one program and are working towards the same goals for the children and families; 

    regardless of 

    the 

    funding

     source

    . 

    Don’t look at yourselves as separate pieces that shouldn’t interact with each other; work together as one cohesive group. This creates a positive work environment and camaraderie among all staff. You are all in this together!

  • Delegate

    .

     I 

    have to

     be

    honest;

     I am 

    not good

     at this

    . 

    It would always be one of my goals for the following year. I 

    continue to work on this

    ,

     and 

    highly urge you 

    to 

    do this

     as well

    . 

    This will not only h

    elp your stress level and 

    prevent 

    burnout;

     it will empower 

    your team members to take on 

    other 

    responsibilities 

    and develop new skills. Go over what is needed and check-in but t

    rust 

    them to 

    do the task

    . Just make sure not to overload 

    them; no one should take on too much at one time.

  • Your office may seem like an assembl

    y line.

     Your staff 

    will 

    come to you with questions, concerns, and ideas

    . 

    This can be 

    overwhelming at times 

    because they always seem to need you for something,

     but th

    at shows 

    that

     they respect you, trust you, 

    and 

    know 

    you

     are there to support them

    . 

    That is a great thing

    .

    W

    hat 

    does 

    it say if staff never go to their director

    ?

    Make time for them, b

    e a good listener

    , and 

    get them involved when there is a problem.

    H

    ave them be a part of the discussion and encourage them to 

    think of

     possible solutions

    .

  • Seek input from your staff

    .

    It is important that your teachers feel they have a voice and that their thoughts and ideas matter

    . 

    Remember you’re a team

     and they should be sharing in the decision-making process

     – 

    They are the ones working more closely with the children and families every day.

     I

    f 

    they get to

     be a 

    part of the

    se

     discussion

    s

    , 

    they will then understand the purpose of a change and the benefit it will have to their daily work. This will in turn lead to employee buy-in

    , which is the only way any 

    meaningful 

    change will last.

  • Provide honest, specific, and objective feedback. 

    This may 

    happen

     after you observe in a classroom or just during an informal conversation but should 

    occur

     on a regular basis. You want to run a quality program for children and families and need to assure that teachers are always using best practices.

    If an employee does need to improve in an area or is not following a program expectation you 

    must 

    address this. It may be uncomfortable but 

    giving constructive feedback and developing an action plan together promotes their professional growth.

  • Take pride in what you do.

     If you are enthusiastic and passionate about what you do, then you will get your staff excited and energized about what they are doing 

    with the children 

    in the

    ir

     classrooms. If you are only there for the paycheck, it shows and will rub off on your staff. You are a model for them; they will care and work hard if that is what they see you do.

  • Always focus on boosting staff morale.

     Working in an early care classroom is rewarding but also very demanding. When teachers

     are happy

    , they will give their best

    and be effective in their work with children

    .

     Show your appreciation and acknowledge their efforts and hard work. A little can go a long way;

    make them a snack or buy them lunch, give them 

    birthday 

    cards, plan staff outings, play games, you and other

    s

     can write recognition notes about specific things they did

    , 

    etc. There is so much you can do; just know this needs to be consistent and sincere. Make them feel valued; it will make a big difference.

Your role as a director may be different than you are used to but know how important you are to a program. You will have numerous responsibilities and it can be hectic at times; you are keeping track of the entire center (or multiple centers), there will be a lot of paperwork, budgeting, training, scheduling, etc. But you will also become more comfortable speaking in front of groups, your communication and professionalism skills will grow as you interact with a variety of people, and your confidence in being a leader and making tough decisions will build.

I was not sure about moving from a teaching position to becoming a director and working more closely with adults instead of children. But you know, sometimes an opportunity presents itself and it ends up putting you exactly where you’re supposed to be. Embrace and enjoy this new position. Have fun with your staff and keep moving forward; you will find your stride.

Additional resources:
NAEYC – What Does It Mean to Be a Director
Self-Assessment for Administrators of Child Care Programs